USA, France, Spain, Germany, England, Australia . . . stressed out singles from 80+ countries — who are just like you — are joining this weekly webletter to help them feel better, and do better in life.

I’ll be your motivational alter ego, your confidant, your ally for getting a better life and for getting better friends and dates.

And, hey— it’s not about being in the right place at the right time when finding them, it’s about being (mentally) prepared when you are in the right place at the right time.

Motivated!  Met!  Married!

“I feel too awkward (weird, fat, short, ugly) when being social — especially when I want to go out with someone.”

A lot of people will not approach you, or anyone, because they also have the same feelings you have about yourself…

…especially about looking desperate, creepy, weird.

It’s kind of funny, but frustrating at the same time. You all are on the same wavelength — you want to meet — but the connective wires are not touching.

Remember that for the the next time.

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“I have poor looks. It has stomped and murdered my self-esteem.”

As your ally and partner in crime, I will not let your mind bully your body. I will not let you judge yourself through other people’s eyes.

I will not let you talk shit about yourself. You wouldn’t like it if people talked shit about you, so why do it to yourself?

Why is it so many people — who are just like you — can find a happy, loving, secure relationship, but you can’t? The problem isn’t what’s on the outside of you (your appearance), it’s what’s between your ears.

Your thoughts made you who you are today. If you don’t like who you are; if you don’t like how you feel, change your thoughts.

Don’t give a fuck about assholes who judge. They wouldn’t even make a good friend.

Fold your concerns into paper planes, and turn them into flying fucks.

THAT will be your superpower! Not even kryptonite CRAPtonite will hurt you! 

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If a social life is like soup, and you’re a fork…

…and if you feel like your life in general is like a shit show from the get go,
let’s trade addresses for a few days, so I can send you just a wee bit more.

Parker@SundaysWithParker.com

“The hands of my anxiety and annoying awkwardness are around my throat, and I can’t say shit to the one I like.“

Don’t think so much about having a conversation.  Think short, simple chats. Your mind, your psyche,  will then calm the fuck down.

Talking is made of questions. So, think back when you talked to people. What kind of  questions did you ask? Write ’em down.

See your future self. What kind of questions could you ask? Write ’em down to prepare yourself. 

In hindsight, what would you have asked that would have shown you they were not for you, thus saving you from a wasted date? (Dodging a bullet.) 

“I’m tired and broken from having my time wasted over and over again.“

It’s true — time wasters really are life wasters!

Whether it is online or off, what questions would you have asked before the asking of the date? The kind of questions that would have saved you from the time wasters?

You wouldn’t? Well start! It can save you from so much mental exhaustion.

I will help you. Parker@SundaysWithParker.com

We ask questions and look closely at things that we invest in to make our lives better: a good mattress, books,  therapy products, counseling, shower jets, house, car . . .

But many, many, too many singles don’t do the same to one another.

You are emotionally investing yourself!

There are no silly “secrets” to successful dating and finding someone to wrap yourself around and talk to. 

It’s just a matter of preparing yourself, asking just a few compatibility questions beforehand (not too many at once), and learning from mistakes.

By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail. So, may I show you more?